Anyway so we didn't speak for 2 months, but over the last month we became friends again and started to talk, she told me she slept with 2 guys. She asked if i had and i said no, the only incident with me was when i was drunk i danced with this girl 2 months after the break up and we kissed, she wanted sex but i wasn't that comfortable and also kissing another girl felt kind of weird aswell. Anyway that didn't materialise into anything so i never went on dates with her or with anyone for that fact. Anyway we recently agreed to give our relationship another go a couple days ago. She referred to us as being together for 1 year and 4 months, basically including the break. I was just like if someone asked me i would say we have been together for a couple days, she got a bit offended like how can i discount a whole year of us being together, so i said maybe i would be like 1 year and 4 months on and off. She seemed to get pretty annoyed saying it's stupid to count our 3 months break up and how it's been 1 year and 4 months
Basically, i don't agree, i mean i don't feel like i have been with her for 1 year and 4 months because logically i haven't. When it hits 2 years since the day i asked her out i can't celebrate that like it's been 2 years because to me it hasn't, 2 years means 2 years of commitment and love and we broke up i mean not even in a jokey 1 week thing. We broke up COMPLETELY like she slept with 2 guys and i kissed a girl so that's not commitment. I would celebrate probably a year since we got back...
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If she wouldn't have slept with other guys after your break up, it might have meant something. Since she did, I don't think it does.3