Should I text the ex to feel it out?
What Girls Said 3
I would send her a text because at least she shows that she cares about you weather thats as a friend or girlfriend she still shows she cares about you anyone that takes time out to show they care about you regardless of what happen to you guys in the past leave it in the past because she's worth keeping in your life its always great to know someone cares about you
I feel like you left out the most important piece of information for us to be able to answer which is how you feel about her?
Don't do it , exes are exes for a reason man
What Guys Said 1
She probably still is, but is keeping you on tabs. She's starting to realise the grass isn't greener on the other side.
This is what you do: cut ALL contact with her. Don't answer her texts for a while. This will drive her crazy. When it gets to a point, send her a text saying you've been really busy and ask if you guys can meet up.
When you meet, and only if you do, make it short, maybe 1 hour tops and tell her you're busy and leave her there. Look back when you walk away, she'll be looking at you I promise.
From then, 1-2 weeks no contact. Then have a date (do the same as above). After that go on more meaningful dates and make it official again.
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