Most Helpful Girl
I think you should completely pull away and almost disappear. The two of you need space from each other. You giving him space should not be for the sole purpose of him choosing to be with you again. Not contacting or communicating with him is more so the both of you can improve yourself and figure out what you want and don't want. With that said, in my opinion, do not fully expect him to come running back to you. You can hope of course, but there is a possibility that that isn't what he wants. So be prepared to move on if you have to. But for right now, stop communicating with him. Both of you need time to sort things out.