Is my ex-girlfriend jealous after dumping me?

My ex-gf broke up with me saying she does not see a future with me for more than one or two years (she wants to go back to Europe ). We were together for 6 months.

It was an interesting relationship. She was very possessive but I loved her. Whatever I did for her it was never enough.

She broke up with me expecting me to beg her to take me back straight away but I didn't (I gave her 3 days space to cool down) so she kicked off shouting I had my chance to fight for her before saying goodbye to me.

One week after we broke up, her car had engine trouble so I called to see if she is okay. I told her (stupidly that I miss her). She said its over and she gave me many chances for me (basically wanted me to stay in all the time). She told me not to text her again. So I said okay I won't.

Then she told me to have a nice weekend. I said I am going for a lunch with one of our females friends who used to have a crush on me. She basically then said - go sleep with her!!!

Since then I have not contacted her. She did add like to my Facebook cover photo (might not mean anything) and changed her profile photo to a very nice photo (to the delights of her ex bfs ).

I am staying calm. I don't understand. Why would she get jealous with our common friends if she broke up with me and doesn't want me back.

Since then I went out with our common female friends. She used to like all our pics but now she only likes the ones of the girls who does not hang out with me (they are all mates).

She should have let me be. Am I correct? I will never understand women :(

I am going for Non Contact now. Will live my life and if she contacts me, great. If not I will miss her but will let her go. She is 31 so I am expecting a more mature behavior.


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  • The situation as it is, sweetie, is in terms of like two cats. When one cat has marked his territory and another cat is coming over to try and mark this same place, That other cat will pull out its claws because he is the only one who feels he has first grabs on this area, no Other cat.
    It's the same thing now with you and your Ex. It's not all that complicated, And not All that uncommon. She may not want you, but doesn't want anyone else to have you, neither. It's not so much "jealousy," as it is----territorial. And although she is 31, doesn't mean she will act like a "proper pussy cat" over any female friends you drag in. She will always have something to hiss about.
    You're smart to just move on with your life. She not only sounds childish and selfish and ungrateful, but sporadic and unpredictable like a cat on a hot tin roof.
    Don't try and figure this whiskered woman out. Just keep walking, and don't look back.xx


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  • It sounds like she is playing mind games and is very immature. I think she just wants attention. Don't give it to her because that is very narcissistic and cruel.

  • She just wants you to beg to her. She sounds so immature from what you said. She just wants more of your attention

  • She sounds like she has some serious issues. You're wise to cut off contact.


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