Anyone else not interested in dating after divorce?

I had married my high school sweetheart. I'm nearing. 30 now and divorced over a year ago.

I'm still getting used to learning about myself and being on my own and I love it. But honestly, I always have had such an easy time attracting guys. And well, I'm not getting younger... I don't go out much, I don't flirt and don't have any guys number. I feel like I should be out there having fun, but I don't.

Everyone is having "fun". I'm more focused on myself, which is still new.

I just wonder if I'm supposed to push myself or open myself to the idea of a relationship? Really curious if anyone else is in this position. Feeling like you are supposed to, feeling like now is the best time, but not at all interested...
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Also wanted to mention, I am 100% over my ex. I miss nothing.

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  • I think you're supposed to just live life and do what you love to do, and eventually instead of you looking for a relationship, you'll suddenly find yourself in one without purposely trying hard to get one.

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  • if you dont feel ready don't push yourself

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