broke up with my fiance few days ago. she's going through a tough time but its not an excuse. got angry from an issue which she brushed off but i found it insulting from her part and that she didn't respect my word and i told her it was wrong a few times and it bothered me which led to a big fight where she usually ends with empty threats and a mistake we got back and the rest. gave her over a week to realise her mistake which she didn't as she's used to me patching things up.
then found out that not only did she realise her mistake but she took it to a new level which got me very angry which led me to end it. sent a message which i thanked her + explained my reason and how she didn't care and no matter how much she means to me won't allow this insult and that she's better than this and hope she finds some1 who she loves and respects as what she did are not the actions of a girl who "adores" me as she says. attatched a pic of the issue that got me angry and i couldnt accept. she replied very defensively with more backstabbing which i ignored. returned her stuff and spoke to her mom apologised that the engagement is off.she's immature and stubborn and i dont think she fully grasps that from my perspective it was insulting it wasn't an issue of trust. i think she never thought id pull the trigger. been always great too sweet caring and generous with her that in her mind i can't live without her. she's back tomorow and will definetely return her stuff etc. she told me that i hurt her so bad she's playing the victim when she's wrong.
my question is for you girls if you were wrong and love ur guy and u know that u took him for granted and didn't appreciate and were too stubborn to admit ur fault and he snapped and ended it, i do know she loves me but what am i supposed to do. i took action which was stern and stood up for myself and i didn't bend over and allowed her to get away with it. never wanted things to end this way but she forced me into a corner
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You know what... my mum is exactly like your now ex-fiancee so in my opinion, it is the best for you to break up with her. I hate it when my dad being passive and just being a good dog to my mum.
And not just taking it out to my dad, she took it out on her children too. For me.. I know how you're feeling with this. I know how much it hurts but you can't say anything because you love her but.. sometimes, what is good to you, not the best for you
You'll find someone better and she'll love you as much as you love her.1
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