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"Guys do you feel anything when someone breaks up with you?"
Sometimes, sure. But like any other emotion we're very good at not displaying it for everyone to see.
When you break up with a guy and it hurts him, he's most likely going to want to hurt you back. We're simple like that. And most guys know, even on an instinctual level, that a good way to hurt a girl is to make her feel the way you do now. So even if he was hurt, he's not going to show it, and he's going to act like you don't matter to him, never did, and your breakup doesn't hurt him at all.
But here's the main lesson for you (and I wish other girls would learn it as well).
You CANNOT throw the handgrenade of breaking up into a relationship, and expect the guy to hear "Fight for me, I was willing to work on things, I just want to talk"
When you nuke the relationship, it's nuked. There's no putting it back together.
If you want to talk, say you want to talk. Not "I'm breaking up with you" Because the vast majority of guys will act like he did, and what's more, they'll be having sex with someone else as quick as humanly possible.2
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