How do you deal with an ex who goes out to the bar/club all the time?

I know I shouldn't care but my recent ex-boyfriend goes out 2-3 times a week, every week. It's been driving me crazy and makes me anxious to think about it.

I'm totally not the type of girl who goes clubbing to meet someone, so the chances of him meeting someone before me are greater than mine.

How do I distract myself from my own thoughts about him and who he's bringing home?

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  • Chances are, he is going to clubs to pull, that's possibly his way of getting over everything.

    You will care about this but there's nothing you can do to stop it, as soon as you accept that you have no control and that you two are over, then you can start moving on.

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What Guys Said 2

  • It sucks. You just have to ignore it. Try exercising or doing something you like. Try talking more to family and friends.

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  • He's an ex. Who cares? It's making you anxious and crazy because you're jealous and being selfish about this. If he meets someone, so what.

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    • I agree with your opinion but how does this make me selfish?

    • "..so the chances of him meeting someone before me are greater than mine."

      This is selfish. It's not a competition.

What Girls Said 2

  • I would say, "More power to him." He can do whatever the heck he wants.

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  • You're right. You shouldn't care.

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