My boyfriend of six months just broke up with me last Wed. He originally wanted a break but i blew the situation out of porpotion, things were done and said and we ended up breaking up. I begged him later that night to reconsider and he said he would think about it. The next day I gave him his space to breath. My sis told me my ex told her "I miss your sister Im considering of taking her back." I was still depressed and angry that I called one of my guy friends whom he was extremely jealous of and that same night I spammed my FB with how great support he was. since my BF had broken up with me, he constantly kept logging in to his FB and didn't sleep that Thursday or that Friday morning. I was so upset he didn't call in those 2 days that I despite hearing that he wanted to come back to me, I told him not to bother and to get out of my life. He asked me why, and then said it that's what I wanted. I though that was going to push him back to me. I was wrong. He made his decision that night and next morning he deleted me from FB and when i called him begging him why he didn't want to be with me. He said he didn't love me, that he cared for me and if i ever needed something from him he was there but we were done forever. He said he was sure I would find someone. A few hours later he called me to say he was feeling something strongly for my best friend. She had offered him comfort in the last few weeks and that he felt something for her. i called her and she feels the same. Now they have been "seeing each other" since that day. They spend every hour of the day together and she spend nights at his house but she said they haven't done anything sexual. Just kissing and grinding. I tried talking to him but all he has is very confrontational things to say and on Mon. he said we could still fix things. But yesterday both of them said we could no longer be friends. He told me to move on. She did tell me they were having problems and that they were just "hanging out."
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I hope you learned your lesson. No games. Trying to push him back to you by telling him to go away and leave you alone? Game.
I'm positive that little ploy of yours drove him to finally accept breaking up with you. He was changing his mind a little after you begged and were acting sweet, asking for a chance. Then you screwed it up by being vicious.
You should let this one go and start fresh. Learn from your mistakes. Be kind and patient. Don't overreact or play games.0