Most Helpful Guy
You can't have too many friends
but some friends need to reside on the back burner - like this guy.
Spend more of this free time on the front burner shopping for guys that are relationship candidates, easy matches.
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Having taken a break from my marriage to a husband out in Egypt, I became involved with a Coptic Christan, who was much like your friend. He lost his father three years ago, and on top of his mother having health issues, he works a 10-12 hour a day job, which with all of this, consumes a lot of his time------and left very little for me. I never was Once even a priority.
We became involved in a relationship that he wanted to become exclusive in, but never would commit officially to, and was very sporadic and unpredictable. He only got together when it was convenient for him, never really cared when I was sick, only if I wasn't "around" for him to keep an eye on. Your episode reminded me of when I was very sick this last time, and it was as though he had fallen off the face of the earth, for-----no text back. Everything was about him, and I got nothing but heartache and grief in return. He even went so far as to disappear back to Egypt, leaving his best friend to air his dirty laundry in telling me, for he couldn't bear to see me cry. I took him back for awhile, but I can tell you right now----they Never change.
Yes, like me, you "wasted your time and energy" on some worthless worm who didn't give a rat's behind for you or how your heart feels. He plays games with your head and toys with your heart, and if you continue Any kind of relationship with a bum like this, you'll sink to his level, for he will constantly bring you down to rock bottom, where you and your poor feelings will remain, broken and battered.
Yes, things do change in a relationship when it comes to the Big "C": Commitment. Many guys today have problems being hooked at the hip, and the ones who Are in one, are either emotionally unstable, or just not ready to tie themselves down.
Move on, and don't look back. Don't let him continue to wear you out and wear you down. He's not even a friend, for you can't count on him for anything but drama all the time.x
I honestly believe you should have a serious talk with him.
Who knows? I doubt it
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