The title is the question. I know of all the usual stuff: spend time with friends, date other guys, indulge in hobbies, keep yourself busy, etc.
I've done all of these, but as soon as I start to feel alright I see him again and fall back into misery. We go to the same college, we attend some of the same parties, live in the same small town... it's impossible to avoid him. And whenever I see him I am reminded of what we once had.
How do I get over someone who is constantly there to remind me of what I lost?
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Well i guess it makes it harder for you realizing that he wasn't that much into you and he has moved on so quick, while you still hope he somehow turns back.
Stop thinking he will turn back, that is highly unlikely. You were just a girl for him, not "the girl". You, like everyone else that gets in a relationship, got used to the attention he gave you. Now you have to get used to the idea that you aren't his centre of attention anymore.
To be honest i had a bad episode with a girl. I didn't unfriend her from Facebook and saw everything about her life. I met her a few times, afterwards and it actually helped me. Just passed by eachother and said hi, nothing more. It happened about 4 times. So like BackAgain said, it's time to realize nobody's perfect and this guy has major flaws. Don't befriend bc it will hurt seeing him hit on other girls and flirting with them. Don't spend time with him. The fact that you two accidentally bump into eachother or cross paths, no biggie, i think it will help on the long run.0