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I dont think you're in any type of position to give HER an ultimatum. Remember, you cheated on her and now her trust for you is little to nothing, hence her being conflicted. Feelings for someone doesn't just go away over night, and that's why you guys were intimate. But I think you should fall back...WAYYY back with trying to push her into anything. If you take a moment and think of how you would feel if she cheated on you, that might change your perspective. You need to give her time to decide what she wants and I think its selfish of you to put a time frame on that and YOU broke her heart. Lets get real here. If you can't wait for her to decide, or if you can't give her space and time, then move on. That might be better in the end anyway.