Why do guys cheat? End of love or just boredom?

Why do guys cheat?

It is because you don't love her any more
or you just get bored? Or another reason? What is that?


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  • None of the above, its our nature too want too procreate with as many as we can, if you find a guy who doesn't cheat he is going against his own nature, and should be respected for that

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    • Bullshit. The human nature argument only means it's against our nature to be monogamous. If you're going with your 'nature' and you're honest about it, then you simply won't be in committed relationships so that you can procreate with as many women as you can. It really doesn't change that if you cheat you went behind someone's back, broke her trust, and are an asshole. There is no evolutionary reason to cheat.

    • Hell if anything there's an evolutionary reason NOT to cheat, because then nobody's going to beat the shit out of you or kill you for it.

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What Guys Said 10

  • Its not boredom, or the fact you don't love them, its mainly because the woman allows her man to take her for granted, and when this is done long enough, guys get thinking that, although if she found out, she will forgive me, and that way he can play the field a little, so really, keep your guy on his toes, don't let him take you for granted, because you can bet he wouldn't allow you to, x

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  • Don't fuck with guys who cheat! They cheat because for some reason they think they can maintain two relationships without either of the girls knowing about it. Cheating never works out in the end. Eventually they find out they their boyfriend has been cheating on them.

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  • it depends, whether the girl is boring in all aspects (sexually, physically) or the relationship isn't what it was in the beginning and you are looking for excitement. if that happens once, then that might be the reason but if it's continually then...

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  • Oftentimes it is because he never gave you enough of his heart to consider you worthy enough. He sees something exciting, wonderful, free, and awesome in another woman- because those parts of him were never given to you. That can be because of psychological damage, or because you yourself were withholding part of your heart. I am not saying that is the case. But it can be a contributing factor.

    Bottom line- so long as he withholds himself from you, the innermost parts of his soul, you are not fully his.

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  • Sometimes they feel that the woman doesn't appreciate him anymore, he gets hurt, and lashes out unknowingly and the next thing you know a one night stand turns into a full blown affair.

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  • maybe its a lack of communication, or she not showing enough interest

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  • Dont know, The only thing I've ever done with another girl while having a gf was give them hugs

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    • Hope u stay that way, and make us women feel that there are good ones out there

  • * Mostly it's because he's not getting sex at home.
    * Often it's because she has fallen out of love with him.
    * Sometimes it's because he doesn't feel the rush from the early days.
    * On rare occasions (esp in long-term relationships) it's because she's making him feel like shit!

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  • The reasons men cheat can be many and varied. It is seldom because they don't love their partner any more. If that were true, they'd often just leave rather than cheat.

    And it's almost certainly never boredom.

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    • But to leave someone isn't easy, especially when you're married. In this way they escape somehow.

What Girls Said 2

  • Depends on how many times. If he cheats many times he is most likely a sociopath and doesn't understand the concept of commitment.

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  • I think anytime a person cheats, it's because they're being selfish. That's pretty much universal in every case, I think.

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