Me and my ex have been on and off again for a while.
We always start dating again and then stop because I try and push the relationship aspect too fast.
We are "off" right now and he has gone home for 2 weeks of holidays.
He said that "I push him away so much" because of everything that I keep bringing up.
I asked if I stop then will I not push him away. He said "Yes! I need space".
I have realised my issues and am trying to work on being the fun and relaxed person I am when we are in our happy moments.
I am also not contacting him.
I'm afraid he will miss me.
I love him to bits and despite our issues we are so comfortable and happy with each other and I really really want this to work again. How can I get him back and give him space at the same time?
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Listen to what he says - he needs space, give him space. He'll come back when he's ready, and not before then.0