How can I get my girlfriend to let me cheat on her?

I want to cheat on her but she can't cheat on me since she had sex before me and had sex with over 30 guys. I need to cheat on her. How can I say to her hey I need to cheat on you. But you can't cheat on me. She won't have sex with me in public and won't do threeways so I have to cheat on her

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  • You know it is impossible to agree anyone to let you cheat. What you are looking for is an open relationship which really isn't cheating. Cheating simply implies that you want to get away with sleeping around don't want your lover to know or ever find out.

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  • If it's that important then you should break up with her. Go forth and have your fun, then when you're ready to settle down find someone then.

    She's already had her fun and wants something serious. If you're not ready for that then it's wrong of you to lead her on.

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  • Wow, no offense, but that is a seriously toxic relationship. If you really loved her, you wouldn't feel the need to cheat. Did she cheat on you? Or does she just have more experience? And if you have to tell her that you want to cheat on her, it's not really cheating, since it won't be behind her back..

    What a confusing question! But anyway, if your girlfriend is unwilling to have sex in public and/or with others, that's not a reason to justify cheating.

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  • Why did you even get together with her anyways if you have a problem with her past? That doesn't make sense. You're already checked out of the relationship so do the right bing and dump her. Unless she dumps you first for being a dick.

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  • Why don't you tell her your going to cheat on her and leave her, and who would have sex in public, also you are soo not the marrying type, because your in a relationship and want to cheat have you even openly talked to her? No well you need to.

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  • I am sorry, but I refuse to believe that people like you exist. Stop trolling please.

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  • WTF with you guy?

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  • Trooollllllll!!!

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  • you are a product from porn. in real life, you can't do that. why? 'cause people do have feeling and NOT JUST WANT SEX.

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  • Hold up girls, I think I know were this guy is coming from. He says his girl had sex w 30 guys, he feels like thats not fair. He wants to even the playing field by sleeping w more chicks so theyre even. he's bored in their relationship so he want to spice things up w threeways & sex in public places. Since she refuses to try new things (threeways, public sex, etc.) he's gotten bored and is seeking new physical and mental stimulation other than her.
    The only thing is dude is if you do sleep w other girls (even w protection) you could get some STD and possibly get some random girl you dont love pregnant. Plus, you'll lose the trust your girlfriend has in you. Shell feel like you dont love her, you dont find her attractive, you're not serious about her, you dont care about her, etc. You might think you're making things better for you and your relationship, but you'll really be pushing her away and eventually shell disconnect from you completely.
    If you still feel like you wanna have sex w other girls, maybe try this;
    1. Explain to her how you feel about her sleeping w so many guys, maybe say something about how you wanna be just as experienced as her and how you want to pleasure her better than any lover she ever had before and you can only do that through experience. Make sure to make it sound as innocent as possible. (yeah I know it's practically impossible, just try.)
    2. Just go out and do it. Be very careful w this approach though, you DONT want her to find out about it. Be sure not to give the other girls your main cell # (get a second cell just be sure shell never find it!) and have a cover story for where you were.
    3. Just forget about it. I mean really, is it that important?
    4. Break up w her. I mean if you feel insecure and BORED in the relationship, GTFO. You can't truly change anyone or their past. You need to find someone who you don't second guess yourself about. And if you NEED to cheat on her, she's not your one.

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  • if you 'have' to cheat on her, you shouldn't be with her. just be single

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  • Just break up. You clearly aren't ready to be in a relationship.

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  • You never need to cheat , if she isn't comfortable with something like having sex in public or threesome that doesn`t mean you should cheat or need to cheat. It doesn`t matter how many people she has slept with previously. If your happy with someone your happy and numbers shouldn't matter

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  • Why do you feel the need to cheat on her? Just because she has had sex with other guys does not mean she should accept her boyfriend cheating on her. The fact that she doesn't want to to those other things is not a bad thing. It says to me that she really thinks you are special and hopes to build a life with you. Obviously she is very wrong!! If you really feel the need to cheat on her then be a man and do her a favor by breaking up with her. You obviously don't care about her.

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What Guys Said 19

  • This seems to be a popular question, or, more likely, you keep posting this nonsense in different words.

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    • I was about to say, is this the same guy that posted before?

    • Yes it is. I am struggling with my girlfriend right now

    • Either you respect who she is NOW, ignoring her past and treating her well, or you break up with her, not cheat on her. But this was said to you on the last post by many and you ignored it. So are you looking for "fan support"?

  • You can't cheat on her with her permission because then she's "sharing you" and it's not cheating. Plus the logic behind you wanting to cheat makes no sense at all. Honestly, even with my count, I constantly bump into girls with more partners than me. It's the way it is nowadays.

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  • If she's had sex with 30, what's 31?

    WTF do you want a three way for, you got more then 3 dicks you need to get stimulated at the same time?

    Here's a big news flash for you - you could go have sex with 10 other girls, and from what you've told us, all 10 would likely be more boring and less fun in bed then your gf. You struck gold on your first swing, stop fucking second guessing it.

    Public sex if she's done before i don't see why she wouldn't do again. But the rest, forget it.

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  • I am not really sure how to suggest it and have her say yes, my wife was open minded when we dated, it took awhile before I had the nerve to even suggest such a thing and honestly she brought it up first. We went to one of her class reunions and was kissing on a female friend of hers after a few drinks, and after meeting the girl she seemed nice and fun. Over the next few months my wife would ask at times if I liked that friend or thought she was cute, I admitted that I thought she was, one night we had went on a bar crawl, and at the end of the night we saw the friend (still unsure if my wife arranged it) and she actually drove us home since we were both drunk enough, and I pretty much went to bed and slept. The next morning I woke up and my wifes friend was laying in bed naked and told me we had a wonderful night, I was stunned and couldnt remember anything not to mention regretting I didn't remember but I tried not to say anything, it wasn't long after that my wife jumped out of the closet laughing and admitting it was all a joke, and my wife told us just to stay in bed while she made us breakfast, it was kinda cool to at least see the friend naked, I was undressed as usual to sleep but was under the covers, and admittedly I was excited. My wife actually brought the breakfast in on trays to serve us, the friend got under the covers while she ate, as my wife cleared the trays the friend rubbed her leg on mine and thanked me for being a good sport, she wasn't so sure the gag/trick was a good idea, but was happy I wasn't mad. My wife had to go to work and she was asking the friend about her plans that day, and to my surprise she told her just hang out at our place till after my wife worked a few hours and then wife would drive her back to her car, I pretty much figured the time would be spent normally and out of bed and dressed, my wife kinda teased us and said we looked good together, and playfully pulled the sheets off of us, and said she was going to work and we could do whatever we wanted. After my wife left I told the friend I was shocked my wife set the prank up and said what she did, but the friend acted like she liked everything and was game for more, she started kissing me and it really got passionate and we had sex a few times before we fell asleep. We were woke up by my wife and she said she sure hoped we hadn't slept the whole time. We were honest with her, and all was okay, it never happened again. Of course my wife expects a returned favor.

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  • Say something like hey I need to cheat on you. But you can't cheat on me.
    See where that leads. Maybe it will solve all the issues you have with her once she leaves you and finds guy number thirtysomething who treats her like his number 1.

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  • Just cheat... if you ask her permission its not cheating... and honestly if she said no to public and threesome, shell say no to you swinging...

    So if you want other women, just go fuck them. Simple as that.

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  • You're disgusting, im not surprised she won't do 3 ways or have sex in public. You are looking at being single very soon I reckon

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  • Dude get over yourself cheat or don't if you can go for it if not well that's a you problem shit just tell her you want to catch up with her in the numbers if that doesn't work ha good luck

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  • Public or threeway? You crazy pervert. Also if you love her, you don't want to have sex with anyone else. Dump her if you want to do it with others.

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  • It's much more fun when you do it without her notice.

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  • That is just fucked up. Why would you want to or ask that?

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  • And worst question of the month goes to...

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  • Is this question for real?

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  • You sound fucked up what's wrong with you?

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  • If she lets you then it's not cheating.

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  • Trolls are out and about this morning, huh?

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  • It's easy. Take a loaded gun, pop it in your mouth, close your eyes and pull the trigger.

    Good luck! Let us know how that goes for you.

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  • With all that experience, certainly she knows someone that is available to do these things with/for you so you can put them in your rear view mirror and get back to being just with her? Have her set these up as one time deals.

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  • act your age, not your shoe size

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