When people cheat, do you feel they've set the whole situation up in their head mentally before it has happened?
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I think it depends who you ask, but I would say yes. I think most people plan it out in their head before doing it. example who, when and where. I also think most men/women don't want to get caught and I think its something you don't share with anyone else even your closest friends. I think the cheater has it planned out like they are a FBI agent unless they don't care if they get caught. I think part of the excitement of cheating is the planning and not always the actual cheating it self. I think most people don't admit to cheating unless they just can't live with them selves anymore.1