How to act when you run onto person that cheated?

it's been a month since she broke up with me for catching her with her ex ( funny I know) I know summer is approaching and with events happening in this small town i'm eventually going to run into her. how does one act I this sort of situation? my goal is to put on a happy face either though i'm still really hurt by her.

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  • You could be "mature" and give her what she doesn't deserve: your time and energy by even acknowledging her and being friendly.
    Or you could literately treat her like air for sh*tting all over the bond you worked so hard to build. Act like she is no more significant than the dog sh*t you passed on the street, making sure not to step near it. It will make her feel small and that's what she deserves.

    I'd opt for the second alternative. Cheating is disgusting. That's one of the few things I'll never openly forgive someone for. I'll forgive them in my heart so that I can have peace of mind in my future, but I'll never openly forgive them so that they can forgive themselves because that regret will eat them alive and that's what they deserve.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Just pretend she doesn't exist. Go with the idea you don't know her anymore. So when she does say or something just say, "Who are you?" Childish? yes, but you'll feel a lot better than simply ignoring her.

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What Girls Said 4

  • I WOULDN'T be mature. I'd just continue walking to where I need to get to. If I need to walk right past them to do it, I would, without blinking an eye...

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  • Ignite her at all costs. And...smile. Or, you could be cordial, but that would take a hell of a lot of energy.

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  • Be the better person and be mature about the situation. Don't be friendly, be civil, say hello and goodbye and not a lot else in between.

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  • I look straight through the person

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What Guys Said 1

  • walk with a big smile on your face, pretend you didn't notice her and go wherever you wanted to go

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