I suspected my bf was cheating and when my suspicions were proven factual, I hooked up with one of my guy friends I found attractive and who I'm pretty sure likes me.
Basically my best friend who is friends with my bf confirmed the cheating when she saw the other girl in his apartment coming out of his room.
There was a whole bunch of drama since he said she was just a friend and she also has a boyfriend, a long term one just how I am in that sort of relationship too with my boyfriend.
Long story short, my boyfriend and I met up to talk and confessed everything to each other. We decided to stay together but he his hurt that I cheated too and said he would sleep with me if I hadn't cheated back (double standards) and he also says he's confused whether he wants to be in a relationship or not but it sounds awful because his friends told me that he was supposed to break up with me the same time his fling and her bf broke up so I guess they can hook up without guilt.
In the end she chose her bf even though he practically begged her to stay and his fling even contacted me to tell my bf to stop msging her. He always tells me "just watch, she'll remember me"
I can't take it he admitted to loving her and her loving him and booking up several times in the past week or so
I only cheated to get revenge and I had to be really drunk. Now he's depressed and not eating saying he lost a friend. I tell him to stop or he'll lose two :(
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You asked a question "Boyfriend cheated. Should I stay?". People told you to dump him, and instead you stay with him and cheat on him. You had my sympathy before, but you don't have it now.
You cheated on him after he cheated on you. You no longer have the right to complain about what he did, because you're no better than he is. The only thing you've done is prove your a cheater too.
That being said, BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!
His heart and dick aren't in your relationship, they're with her, as evidenced by how he goes on about her. Meaning he WILL CHEAT AGAIN, JUST LIKE WE SAID HE WOULD! Just do what you should have done and end it.1
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