Most Helpful Guy
You should not get involved with someone until their divorce papers have all the necessary ink and that ink has dried.
Most Helpful Girl
Yeah he's not going to. A good rule to live by, is don't date until you see the paper that it's filed. I know a girl that has been living with a guy for four years that can't file because "he is too broke". He recently "reconciled" with the wife and left the girlfriend with a rent she cannot afford on her own in her name.
I also dated a guy once that was seperated and "waiting" for his wife to file first. He broke it off when he decided to move back with his wife as she was 6 months pregnant with his kid (that I knew nothing about). He and I had been together almost a year so figure that one out. Apparently it happened on his "business" trip he was too busy to talk to me on. It was really a family vacation where he got his wife pregnant. It's best to stay away.