Why do I miss him? We were never serious but involved with each other for a long time. He was very narcissistic and older. I always felt so attached to him but I always felt like I could never get him to love me...like I was just an object to him. He just wanted me for sex and was being a jerk so I left.
I'm glad I walked away but sometimes I daydream that I will meet him again and he will somehow magically turn sweet and caring and really see me.
Even though he was such a jerk that forgiving him would require he changes so much that it's not humanely possible.
Why do I still dream of this? It disturbs me a little bit.
Most Helpful Guy
You have been left with a void to fill, and the fact that you put up with so much, your true identity has been locked away, and now that your free to be you, you find it hard with this void to fill where he was, but the only reason it is hard is because you are now healing the damage he caused. You now are preparing your soul for better things, but all your soul knows is the torment this guy put you through, so to move on, you need to realise that to get better, then you need to detox of the rubbish that once took residence in you. And what you cannot do again is forget your worth. Find a guy that's worthy of you, not you worthy of him, x0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Do you have a relationship with your dad? I ask that because if you are not close to your dad it could be because he was like a father figure to you. If you don't feel loved by your father then you are looking for any man especially a older man to fill that void of a missing father figure type. If you are close to your dad maybe he said some of the same qualities your father and that's what you liked about him. studies have shown that sometimes we go for people that remind us of someone that we are close to example mom or dad. My now ex boyfriend was complete opposite of my father and that's what I liked about him. Fill the void by finding things that make you happy. example going to the gym, hanging out with close friends/ family members, listen to music or taking a bubble bath. you can't change anyone you have to accept them for who they are. someone who treats you badly you shouldn't be with. love your self first.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE