why do they point their finger and say they did it because of their partner when clearly they're the ones who made a choice by cheating? I always think cheating is not a mistake because it is a choice. So if you cheated it is clearly your fault. Say your partner is someone who neglects or ignores you or do things you don't like, still, cheating is not the best thing to do. It will never do any good. So why do you blame your partners? You have your own mind and own will, clearly it's your fault.
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To make it simple think of that time you swatted out and hit another kid. You were angry. You did not think it through. After you hit him you blamed him. You said it was his fault because he made you angry. Truth is you're responsible no matter how angry he makes you.
Cheating is rarely a deliberate behavior based off of meticulous and malicious intent. Usually it is a matter of opportunity combined with prolonged suffering of some sort.0