Hi. I am being silly here. My ex broke up with me 2 months ago. Basically she wanted someone who is a bit more of a bast**d like her ex boyfriend. I am more of a nice guy according to her mum (pay for everything, look after her, predictable etc).
I was hurt but after a period of NC I am fine and now moving forward with my life.
I saw her yesterday and we chatted for a bit. She tried to put me down with some comments as I am now looking better (thanks to the gym during NC) and more relaxed. I still care about her as we had a lot of good memories.
I said - Hopefully in time we could become good friends.
Her answer was - I don't know what to say for this!
Sorry for being dumb. Does that mean no or don't know?
Most Helpful Girl
I think it means she's not sure if she wants to be friends with you or not.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
She literally does not know what to say to that. Nobody has been that nice to her before and she is always with bastards. She had a chance to learn how to respond to kindness though, and decided it wasn't for her. There is no explaining a woman's taste.
More than likely she won't be your friend though, even as nice of a gesture as it was. The mere thought of being treated properly makes her uncomfortable.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE