We broke up 2 months ago, we had been together for about half a year at that point and turns out he never wants to get married or have kids, but well I do so I broke up.
And then a month ago, I met someone else. I know it's soon but I met him, he's a great guy, so I gave it a shot and I don't feel bad about it really
Now my ex has been calling me saying he wants to get back together and now suddenly wants a family further down the road. When I told him that I'm with someone else, he was shocked, he said "wow, don't you think that's a little early. I would never do that to you"
Do what to me? We broke up, how am I the bad guy here? And it's not like we had been together 20 years either, just over 5 months
Most Helpful Guy
Sucks for him. You were wise enough to break up with him because you want to get married and start a family but he doesn't. You don't owe him anything.
Most Helpful Girl
He lost you the realized what he lost afterwards...it is not too soon at all...its not like your trying to marry the guy. I do understand where he is coming from...it must be hard for him but tell him " dont be mad once you see that he wants it, if you like it then you shoulda put a ring on it " ;)