I'm a loner, and my boyfriend is in the army (away doing school) and I'm in high school still. Well recently I've been getting back into shape, so I asked an old ex (Wasn't serious at all) if he wanted to run with me. We've been running together for a while now and I don't know my boyfriend doesn't tell me much was he does or whose he's with even when he wasn't in the service yet so I didn't tell him who I was with. I'm not going to kiss the guy or anything. But it does feel good to have a friend now who wants to just have fun. Should I feel guilty?
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Is it cheating? No, but the fact your spending time with an ex might make your boyfriend suspicious. I think you should tell your boyfriend about your friend. It's best to be open and honest in a relationship.
Now, I will say this, make sure you keep an arms length between you and your friend. You must keep it absolutely platonic between you two. Don't have any conversations with him that should be reserved for you and your boyfriend. Also, it would be best if you don't flirt or cuddle with your friend as these are the first steps towards cheating. If you or your friend start to catch feelings shut them down immediately, even if that means you have to end your friendship and not hang out anymore.0