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I honestly can't think that a person could be so cruel. What would the point be in the mind game? I don't think it is a mind game.
I think, maybe she is legitly worried and lost? I have had this in one of my relationships once. The guy was a jerk to me..we broke up for it...and for 2 months he was so worried that I hated him too much that he didn't know what to do...he wanted me back and was sorry but he was worried that too much had happened. He kept making me feel like he was playing mind games as well. One day, he would talk to me and we would try to slowly mend things...the next two days he would ignore me. I think she is hesitating for some reason. She told you she was afraid. I think there is your proof right there. And, she said she was kidding because she is still afraid and doesn't know what to do.
Probably worried that you won't forgive her anyway.