So I've been dating this guy for a couple of weeks and been on around 4 dates as well as texting and calling him. He's said in the past about how he's a relationship guy and that he does like me and has spoken about future plans like meeting his friends. I've even briefly met his mum. But recently I'm worried that he's not ready to be dating and is still in love with his ex who he broke up with 2 months ago but she was his first proper girlfriend. My main reason for this is that he shared this really deep status on Facebook which is obviously aimed at those you've loved and how you might not be perfect but it works etc.
I plan to ask to ask him straight out about this and our situation because I don't want to get anymore attached than I already am only to be hurt. But equally how so I go about asking this without sort of pissing him off?
I was going to ask him to come up to mine this weekend but I'm worried now (I'm at uni atm and I met him back home) I guess I'll know how bothered he is about me though.
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"couple of weeks"
Seriously? You don't own him. If your with someone who just had a breakup and they are hung up on an ex you should take it as a good sign.
it means they are able to CARE in a relationship instead of replace and not give a fuck. But go ahead if you want to be a quickly replaced item go with a person who does not care about someone whom they devoted their hearts to.1