Is putting a relationship on hold a way of breaking up?

If someone came from the recent past of the person you're dating and asked you to put the relationship on hold; is it a way of breaking up?

  • Yes, it is a way of breaking up
    Vote A
  • No, the holder may have good reasons
    Vote B
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What Guys Said 1

  • im confused; some one from your man's past came to you and asked that you put things on hold with your boyfriend? Or is it that this 3rd party went to your boyfriend and now he asks you put off your relationship?

    In the 1st case tell them to fuck right off, and in the second case Id consider it a request to break up for sure. He'd be asking if you'll take him back after he ends it to do whatever while you're waiting for whenever he decides he's ready for you again.

    • This person came back and now he's asking to put things on hold while he clears up the mess

What Girls Said 1

  • I think it's a way to cling to a failing relationship.