I'm 19, I am very active, I work out do cheerleading, play basketball rugby and soccer, I volunteer in my community and have always had it easy when it came to getting high marks. I have good friends. Everything is order in my life except for one thing, I have never had a boyfriend. I don't know what it is about me but I've just never been able to date. I don't know what I do to scare them away. I will talk to guys for a week or two and they'll seem interested then they just stop talking, it seems like guys just want to hook up with me but they never want to date. I don't know how to get a relationship at this point I just want a boyfriend but it's impossible it frustrates me that it's easy for everyone but me I feel like it shouldn't have taken me this long I'm pissed.
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Sadly, your update actually does say a lot for men these days. Though with this, I can say that there are men out there that are willing to date you. You just need to find a place to where such men exist.
Usually undatable girls are undatable, because of themselves, and usually not every outside source. Should it either be a personality trait that is just hard to deal with, or possibly just the idea that you aren't really putting yourself on the line.
Dating isn't just a game, nor is it something that can just be done half assed. If you want something, then you must go get it. I've dated some incredibly beautiful women in the past, and honestly (mind my own ego.). They both approached me, and even though we didn't work out. I had honest to good relationships with most of them. Try putting yourself out there, and see what you get. Plus, guys around your age just want sex, and it may be difficult for a while to find the right guy.0
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