I went out with this guy twice. The second time he took me to a very nice restaraunt. He acted like a true gentelman. We had a great time. He told me that he likes me.
However, the next day he texted me and asked me "do you think we should have kissed yesterday?". I said no, everything was great. We will let things happen naturally and I do like to take my time on that.
He never responded to me again. I think i feels insecure and he has low-self esteem. He is 35 though. Why would a 35 year old man ask this?
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Sounds as though this was a 'kiss off,' and I find it rude and crude. And for a 35 year old man to even Text a question such as this one is: Uncool. I have never been asked this. However, I have been asked: "May I kiss you?" That would have been more appropriate.
I do believe, with his asking and antics, that he wanted to See how far you might have gone with him. So when he learned it may 'take forever' to get even a pucker from you, he got discouraged And----'disappeared.' He wasn't into waiting and dating, spending his hard earned money needlessly. Just an assumption.
Some guys, who wine you and dine you, sometimes look for a little 'pricey dessert' after the bill has come. And being you didn't pass his taste test, I still find it strange that he couldn't have at least Replied to------Someone whom he had this 'great time with and told that he likes.'
You're better off without him. Move on to someone more mature.xx0