So there's this guy that I've known for about 9 months. Ever since we met each other we just connected and became really good friends. I don't even remember HOW it happened, it just progressed and it turned into him picking me up multiple times a week to chill with him and his friends. We've been doing this for months now.
A few months after we started hanging out I ended up hooking up with him (just making out) but the next day I felt weird about it because, as dumb as it sounds, I felt like I could do better. So I ended up telling him that I wasn't sure about the whole thing and I ended up distancing myself from him by not answering his texts.
Eventually, I figured it was long enough of a time where I wouldn't feel awkward around him and started hanging out with him again. So we've been hanging out all the time ever since. The thing is though, it's NEVER alone! He always has bunch of his friends in the car with him when he picks me up, and I absolutely can't STAND one of them (we got into a huge fight and I ended up slapping him in the face and he's been so rude to me ever since). So how do I tell him that I want some alone time with him? and how do I get the relationship to progress because I want to do more than just make out with him. I did, however, just text him and tell him I wanted him to sleep over soon last night. But besides that, what should I do?
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If you know that he is going to be picking you up soon, in the same conversation you could put across the point that you are not feeling like hanging out with a bunch of people, but instead you want to spend time alone with him. Don't forget to mention that you are feeling a little good about yourself, and you want to make him feel good too. This would definitely make him want to spend time with you alone.1