I kind of lost interest in this girl who doesn't reciprocate on dates but texts me all the time. I lost the energy to initiate after our last date which went bad, so I ignored her. One week later, she texts me saying that she's really sorry. I replied with "no worries, i forgot all about it". 2 weeks later, I still don't have the energy or interest to initiate with her.
From past experience:
- If you ignore a girl and then initiate with her, for some reason, they go beserk and think they've gained the upper hand. They'll delete you from their contacts, Facebook etc.
- If you ignore a girl for a long time, they'll start a vicious hate campaign against you and will permanently give you the cold shoulder.
What's your take on this? If you have no interest in a girl, would you re-initiate contact? If so, after how long?
Most Helpful Girl
why would you initiate contact with a girl you have no interest in at all, let alone re-initiate contact? Seems like a waste of effort to me.1