The first guy I really loved broke up with me four months ago.
It obviously sucked at first, but after about two months it seemed as if things were getting better, I really thought I was pretty much over him.
But then two weeks ago we were got in touch and, well, ever since then it really seems as though I can't get him out of my head...it's like I'm stuck right back where I was four months ago.
It's pretty pathetic, actually...little signs of him give me the butterflies and literally make my heart beat faster.
I feel horrible, and it didn't really help that he got a new girlfriend two weeks after we broke up.
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It's a combination of how long you've spent with them, and how betrayed you felt when you broke up. Generally if you date for two weeks and he just blows you off, it's painful but mostly irritating.
However, if you've been together for two years and you discover that he's been cheating on you, but he still wants you around along with the other woman... if you can respect yourself enough to break it off, that will probably haunt you for another two years or so, and you might continue to have flashbacks.
It's worse if you try to keep the relationship going and he ends up telling you he never really loved you, and he really loves *blank*...
Then you want to commit murder. That's bad.2