I didn't go to this guy's Football game, that I was suppose to go to. i like him a lot, but I am a really shy person...I blew him off in a result of that. He lost his cell phone and isn't getting one till Monday so I had no way in contacting him to tell him I can't make it to his Football game. I felt really really bad, so I made my friend send him a message on Facebook cause I don't have a FB and she wrote this
'Hey Brian, Stephanie wanted me to drop you a quick email, since you don't have your phone yet. She felt bad that she missed your game. She had to go into work cause a person called off at last minute and she had to fill in for her. She doesn't like to blow people off, always sticks to her word and even though I told her it's probably not a big deal, you know Stephanie...she makes a big deal out of everything, lol. Hope your team won!'
His reply was
"lost both games. im too fucking good and my teams is too fucking bad."
"lol i've been getting messages all night saying how fucking good i am.. feels good hahaha"
What the hell? how am I suppose to take that? He completely ignored what my friend said, and now I don't know if he's cool with me or not. Great! Tell what you think? Does it sound like he's mad?
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What was he supposed to say to her. She is talking for you, he doesn't need to reply to her, he needs to talk to you. Besides, by your own admission what she said is complete bullshit. you cannot use "being shy" for being very rude. All you had to do is show up at a football game, being shy doesn't come into play. In society EVERYTHING about dating is on the guy. We have to make the first move, we have to come up with ideas for dates (usually) and don't get me started on sex. All a woman has to do is show up. she is in complete control of the relationship on every level. there is nothing to be nervous or shy about on her part. it is a poor excuse. So you lie and you upset on how he handles bullshit? try apologizing and telling him the truth and see if he still wants to bother with you.0
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