Lately it seems like my bf is more interested in my phone. A couple weeks ago we got into an argument and i was gonna go sleep on couch and he's like leave your phone up here. I said no because he wouldn't give me his. Then I took mine with me and the next day I asked why he wanted it and he said so you weren't on it all night. Then when my friend miranda would text me he would say oh what does "miranda" want. As in thinking I changed her name n really it was a guy. Which he knows it's her because he has seen our texts. Guys will flirt with me when we are out and I'm not sure if he is just insecure or what. Also last night I had my phone laying on his chest as I was laying by his shoulder and my phone went off and he is the one that unlocked my phone and went to my messages as it was just my mom n he knew that before opening it. I don't care he checks my phone Cuz I have nothing to hide. I use to ask to check his quite a bit as I had trust issues. I'm jw why he is being like this and seems to be more interested in checking my phone then he was before?
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He has lost trust in you and is trying to find out if you are doing something behind his back. The best way to deal with this is not to let him check your phone, he needs to be able to start trusting you, otherwise the relationship will crumble. He will try and get into your phone because you will not openly allow him, but just say no every time he asks, but don't stop him doing it, leave your phone around, and if you catch him going through your phone, let him know it has upset you that he no longer trusts you.x0