How to confront this guy about what he wants?

I met this guy on Okcupid and have been talking to him for awhile now. The only problem is he lives in the UK and I'm in the US. He told me he is moving through his job to the US soon. I haven't been dating other people because I have this hope that maybe we'll be together. However, he has made it unclear of what his intentions are with me and I'm tired of wasting my time.


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  • Just ask him outright. Explain that you are really interested in taking the relationship further with him when he moves to the US, but that you need to know what he is looking for because you don't want to commit yourself to something that has been doomed from the start.
    If he doesn't give you a straight answer then he probably doesn't want something serious and you should look elsewhere.