What's a good way to test if he's actually in to you? And avoid players?

If you said to a guy i believe in monogamy before sex? Or you don't put out until your in a relationship is that a good way to test a guys feelings?
I'm going to uni in September and i don't want to be vulnerable to heartache!
Any advice?


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  • Anytime you take a chance to like, love or care about someone, you are taking a chance at heartache and being vulnerable. Heartache is a part of life. With that said, if you meet someone you are interested in, take the time and get to know them. Ask questions about where they stand regarding relationships, and watch how they treat you. Take things super slow and keep your eyes open, but allow yourself to be vulnerable. If not, closing your heart off will make it impossible to meet someone. Good luck.