Hello. Nowadays, I have become more self- aware and critical than necessary which triggers my Anxiety Disorder I've already had. My question is I'm 19 years old, I have petite structure 5'2" and I look younger than I am. Maybe natural fair and skin also adds to my child looking. The bad thing is I'm also childish as personality, friendly and excited too. What I mean by childish is not being immature emontionally but acting. I always see my all friends no matter what gender they are as friends to have fun, I mean I approach them with same intimacy and behave naturally. I make people laugh, jump, run, play around, sometimes I am troll but you can talk to me seriously too but usually my appearence to everyone is funny girl, talkative, energic girl. which many girls I think holding this youth energy inside to look mature and solemn. When there is something disgusting or dirty joke I would laugh and won't say aww gross.
I only has had 2 boyfriends until today. My male friends say you can date anyone you want, but also say you look cool and distant first then you are the one who changes it and become friendly.
I don't know what should I do? I want a boyfriend to share everything and have fun together but the thing is it seems like guys only like girls who look mysterious and sexy who are more distant.
Do guys like girls natural and funny? Or should I really try to change myself and become dignified? I know I am good looking but I've never become a girl which men talk about if you know what I mean please don't get it like egoism. It's just being appreciated.
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Be yourself girl. It sounds like you have a big personality which some men (boys) can find intimidating. Consider dating someone a bit older.0