Long Distant Relationship with a older guy, cut my losses or hold tight?

I've been talking to this guy, he's perfect for me, everything I could ever want in a man, but he lives in the UK, he says he loves me, but he stopped talking to me for five months and he's back now and says he didn't realizes it hasn't been that long, he has a 3 yr old son ( I have no problem with that) and he's working so I can see how he didn't realize so much time had pass... help me, should I cut my losses or not...

  • cut my losses
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  • don't let a good one go
    Vote B
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Most Helpful Girl

  • What i can only tell u is that:He's just not that into you.
    Because if he really love you.He will contact with u everyday.Except he is really in someting.But he will tell u.Won't let you worry about him.
    I'm in a long distance relationship, too.I'm in Shanghai.And he's in London.It's hard.But i don't wanna give it up easily.:)
    Hope u can make the right decision.


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What Guys Said 2

  • Your better off finding a guy who can give you a more stable
    relationship i have dealt with a ex relationship online it
    was like yours the girl from the UK finally she stopped
    emailing me so now i haven't talked to her going on almost
    2 years this August so i gave up and don't intend to pursue
    anything ever again with her

  • Long distance relationships suck. This is experience talking.


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