How to fight the urge of wanting to have sex with my boyfriend when he's not around?

In a long distant relationship
were together 2weeks ago and next week I'm going to be with him for a whole week <3.

I've been having urges for him, phone sex helps sometimes (I usually get turned on from hearing him ^_^) but I can't do the deed to myself...nor do I even want to use a toy... I dont want to cheat on my bf!

to take the edge off I would keep myself occupied with work or just reading... But the little things like music/movie scenes/certain words would have me think of the time we were together...

Note: I lost my v card to him and were in a long distance relationship. He said I crave it more because I'm new to it and I'm young. I'm 20 he'

I'm totally fine with him masturbating, its just I can't do it lol...idk for some reason it just doesn't work for me-I just simply can't touch myself or use a toy. I get turned off but still crave it...


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What Guys Said 2

  • masturbation is no cheating. XD

  • go to adult store get some toys come home get naked go on your bed and play with yourself till you wear your self out or till you are dry


What Girls Said 1

  • Bring some boys and fuck them..i don't see anything wrong with that how do you think he is dealing with his desires?