I'm a 21 year old college student. I'm trying to date in college because it has never worked out for me before. I'm really tall but also a bit overweight at BMI 27.
In my school most of the girls are skinny, athletic and gorgeous so even though I try not to have unrealistic standards it happens that I fall for such a girl.
I'm a really active person I go to the gym, go running ( half marathon was my farthest) etc so I'm not lazy.
What would you do if a guy like me who is not mega fat but visibly overweight (shirts XL) would approach you?
Skinny, athletic, fit girls what if a bigger guy approached you?
What Girls Said 10
I don't fall into the skinny athletic amazingly gorgeous category lol but I personally like bigger guys, not just tall, but with meat on them so they're well built and bear-like. So for me, if you approached me I would consider myself very lucky :)0
I've dated guys who were a bit overweight before and it was never a problem. We do try to get fit together tho :p
I guess it depends how you approach me. I dobt respond very well to random pick up lines :p0
I have never dated overweight men, simply not attracted.
I would politely decline.
But you don't sound THAT overweight.0
I would nicely turn him down.2
Why does her body matter so much? Have you tried actually getting to know her on the inside rather than just looking at her?0
I don't have a problem with big guys at all... I'm literally underweight. If they have nice facial features and a nice personality then that's all it takes for me really.0
What Guys Said 1
Have you tried approaching any?
Maybe you should lift more by the way if you want a better body. long-distance cardio produces a lot of cortisol, which lowers your testosterone levels and increases your oestrogen levels, which leads to less muscle mass and more fat, and more fat leads to increased oestrogen, it's a vicious cycle. Look at the bodies of marathon runners, they're skinny because they have no muscle, but they also have a bit of fat too. Not a good look. Sprinters have much better bodies - short, high intensity cardio such as sprinting actually boosts your testosterone levels.
I'd say that would be the best way to get those athletic girls.0
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