The last time I rejected a guy he basically told me I was wrong for it- like "you didn't even give me a chance" etc. And I told him that I really liked another guy so I didn't want to date anyone. And he was like "but you're not dating him!"" ? Wtf. So?
And the two girls that know him were telling me that I was being "heartless" and that it wouldn't kill me to give him a chance. I had only met him once and he asked me out through text like a week later. I had zero attraction to him and he seemed unintelligent. I don't HAVE to give anyone a "chance." And I was nice when I let him down.
And then this other guy (a friend) asked me out and I let him down kindly as well. And he told me that there's "better ways" to let a guy down (even though I had said "I'm sorry I'm just not interested in you like that. ")
And he acts like I owe him something. If I don't text back he gets mad, gets offended if I cancel our plans, etc. And another girl told me to give him a chance too. I do NOT like him at ALL.
I'm tired of this. These Are just two examples.
If a girl DOES NOT LIKE A GUY why should she be made to feel guilty or like she owes them something?
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Rejection is a part of the parcel of life, if a person cannot handle rejection and failure then they'll not get very far in this life.
If I ask a girl out and she's not interested, then that's perfectly acceptable. Preference is preference, attraction is attraction and I don't have a divine right to be with the person in question.1