Why can't boys ever be clear? Ugh. Above asks what I want to know.
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Sounds like you put all the responsibility on the guy. You are just as unclear as he is, otherwise you wouldn't be in your unclear situation.
Take a look at your own communication and don't expect others to always define your life and your relationships for you.
If you want to know where you have this guy then there is a very simple solution - Talk to him and stop hoping and guessing.
If you want others to be clear then start by being clear yourself to begin with.0