Whats up guys! okay so my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 7 months now and we are very much into each other. The thing is that we were supposed to be a fling and then after we realized we were actually into each other he did so many sweet things for me like the typical sweet msgs, roses, actually asking me out on dates, and he smiles so much with excited when he saw me. Well now 7 months into the relationship, he doesn't try anymore... i keep bringing it up but nothing changes. I want him to spice things up because im the type of girl that loses interest if the spark isn't there and if im not on my toes!!! Im so head over heels for him but the lack of romance just bugs me. I feel like only sex is the time he actually makes me feel special or when we are just home watching tv... I dont know what to do. Has he lost interest in me? Am i doing wrong? What do i do? Please help me guys, i really wanna keep him around but i will not waste my time, especially his </3
BTW: yes i have brought it up a lot and i still keep things sparked with him to keep him on his toes but him towards me... not so much.
- Should i have serious talk with him about this?Vote A
- Should i just consider giving us a break hoping that he might snap back into reality that he might be losing a good woman in his life?Vote B
- Just let it go, i might be overreacting?Vote C
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too beautiful to be ignored thats for sure.
when you first met. thats called the honeymoon phase of a relationship, everything is new and exciting. you probably learned too much about each other too fast and haven't really evolved since then. honeymoon phase tends to be over pretty quickly and it doesn't sound like he knows that he's supposed to keep it up (even though you told him). we think that once we have you, you will always be with us, and in fact the prettier the girl, the more likely she is to cheat (hopefully you wouldnt). you need to take a long look at yourself and ask yourself if this is worth waiting out. you said its not but if you think he'll change then it might be worth waiting. there's no real good answer here, im just telling you what might be happening. good luck, cutie1
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