Haven't heard from him in 2 days?

He whatsapped me on Monday night, we talked a little and then he told me he was gonna go dinner and sent me kisses, later I said good night and haven't heard from him since... What's up?

Details/Background: He's 31 and I'm 23. We started as friends, We talked everyday all day, phone calls, video calls, whatsapp, etc, we saw eachother quite frequently, we went out, he came to my house, I went to his, we haven't had sex, and for the last month all this had been more and more, so I told him I'm starting to develop feelings for him, because I'm not looking for a relationship and neither is he, but he told me he wanted to talk to me. On Sunday he came to my house and said that at this moment he knows he won't give me all his spare time and his mind isn't in a relationship, but that when the day comes, he will see me.

He has told me during the past 2 months that he has turn down two friends that wanted something more with him, and he said that he told them that he couldn't talk to them anymore. But he told me that he isn't gonna stop talking to me, but if that's what I want he will. He also said that I'm the girl he talks to the most and the others he just doesn't give them any importance.

Why in person he said something like for me to wait for him, and then dissappears? I'm going crazy and I won't text him first!


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  • Sounds like he just likes having you as a safety net. Fuck that, don't wait around for him.


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