I am 22 and I've stopped dating because im done with being defined and rated by guys, why should i care about looks and height and weight, im just done having to fit everyones standards.
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That's your choice.
There's no question that wanting to be desired means putting effort into making yourself desirable. It's possible that if you simply become the person you most want to be, you'll find someone who likes that. All of us need to balance how much we want to become a 'type'.
In my case, I think I underestimated when younger how much I'd enjoy meeting - in some ways - those standards. There was for me a little bit of sour grapes. Maybe not for you.
Live in the way that makes you happy. To the extent it involves others, that involves compromise, but its your choice to compromise to get the benefits of doing so.1