I had a long talk with my long distance boyfriend. I told him I would like for him to contact me more, would he try make more effort, he said yes. We talked Sun and Mon, I ask him why do I always have to call or text all of a sudden, he replys because I am always to busy or tired, but Mon around 10:00 am he sends me a text message, we talk until 2:00 PM on and off. Now it's Thurs, haven't heard nothing for 2 days so far, he said he.'a working hard and was tired even though he had been at work, since 7:30 am on Mon morning. Should I text or call? Or should I give him space and time to contact me. Then a week went by once before and I ask when I reach him is he still my boyfriend, he said yes I am and then I said are you sure, he goes I am sure, so I left it at that. But one thing I notice is that he hadn't been on his Facebook and his cellphone since last time we talked.
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Maybe he really is busy :) my bf and I of 4 years were doing long distance for 9 months because he had to move. But we had issues like this as well. The fact that he hasn't been on his fb seems legit that he's always busy, I'd be more upset at the fact if he were on fb constantly rather than taking the time to call you or text you.
Go on a website and deliver him something nice, you can add a little note card with it saying whatever youd like :) i did this when my bf and I were having issues and it made it better and we both put in more effort.1