So a guy asks you out and for whatever reason (s) you reject him. Somewhere in the future he asks you out again have you accepted his request the second time around? If so, why? Also why did you reject him the first time around?
Have girls ever accepted a guy after rejecting him before?
What Girls Said 10
I've never done that. Not that I have so much experience with guys lol :/ Yeah, I pretty much am sure of a person and it's hard to convince me to change my mind. And the reason I rejected the guy (only guy rejected in my life)(not that many guys have asked me out lol ) because he was so clingy and smothering and also a bit of a depressive person and right after the date he was upset about a fight with his parents and told me that even though they fight, they are the only reason he's still alive. And I'm sorry, but I am in general a pessimist or a very insecure person and I know how bad it is, which is why I am trying to distance myself from everything that makes me even more negative.I'm trying to change.0
I've ever experienced this before. In my case, the guy's so desperate. Really. He likes all girls with long hair, so because I had a long hair before, he confessed to me over and over. I think he doesn't know what does it mean to date someone. So I rejected him twice. We're in the same school, but I was not close to him at all.
The other case is a completely random guy. I just met him once, and has never even messaged him although we have each other's contacts. He's older than me like 4-5 years. And suddenly he confessed to me, and when I rejected him, he was like, "Why? Why? Am I ugly?" Something like that. I rejected him.
So when I don't like someone, I'll reject them softly, and I don't mind to be friends. But I don't like if guys start to force me and trying to look like a poor guy, like the second case.
But in my friend's case, she found it touching when a guy's fighting for her. So after she rejected once, and then she accepted him.
My answer's so long! XD0
No that's never happened. Like inamorata said the only way that would be likely is if the girl barely knew you when you first asked her out but you've gotten to know her better.
Other than that you'll probably get another no. I hate being asked out several times by the same guy.0
It depends on the way he asked well some guys crack under the pressure but few are (lucky) so to speak and u get my point right but side note : I believe a AWESOME guy ask a girl out some also rejected them but y? Because there not in too them and but at the same time there living in a lie.0
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yes ! i didn't feel attracted the first time0
tbh i have thought about it. if a guy asks me out too much though i am just like "date them for a week so they'll shut up" give this person time and if they like you really they will go out with you. Personally i rejected this guy but now i wish i wouldn't have..0
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What Guys Said 4
I wonder if some of the women on this particular question have ever bothered to read their own answer and realize just how complicated they sound.1
Never! unless you instantly become a millionaire then maybe ha jk but seriously, NO, you're like blacklisted in the girl's sub conscious.0
if the guys spends the double the money before0
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