So there's a woman I know whose in her early to mid thirties, she's married but separated and she's dating a guy whose in his late twenties and is a party guy.She hangs out with him all the time, and even parties with him too.She rarely mentions her children and doesn't like to associate with her husband that much.In fact she blames him for putting the kids before her.This other guy she's "dating" is at least 5 or six years younger than her, is single, doesn't have any children, and has a history of being a player and a commitment phobe.Hes had a couple of serious relationships, one of them broke his heart, and ever since then has just been playing around.She keeps on hoping for a relationship with this guy but I don't think its ever going to happen..at last not with her.He does have a history of dating MILFS but I don't think they ever last.Hes said that he considers her one of his best friends but that's it.Whats your opinion on this and do you think he would ever settle down with her if she got a divorce?And if you were the guy in this situation what would you say or do?
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NO, I wouldn't date a woman like that, ever. Sounds like she is extremely immature, selfish, and self-centered. And it appears that like attracts like because she is going after a guy who is just like her. She and her younger love interest will never be anything, and unless she changes how she is she will bounce from relationship to relationship never being the ideal mate and never finding what she is looking for because what is missing is in her, not her partners or her relationships. Her kids are going to grow up and understand the situation better and resent her. She is copping out on what it means to be a wife and a mother.0