OK so here's the deal, gf and I had been fighting for week or so, I had planned a getaway trip with her on May 18. She says she just got her period and was going to the bathroom so it seemed legit, although I thought she just got her period week or two before. While prepring for trip a my place, I try flirting touching and she says she doesn't want me touching her to turn her on. Said she didn't want to get me going by touchin me either for the whole weekend. I said we can work around that a little, then says why should I get pleasure if she cant. That comment pissed me off, I called off trip and hung out with friends that weekend. She text me " I see you make your decision". then blocks my number. On June 7 I finally get her to respond after texting for a couple days. She calls me to say she's single, having fun, and say oh yea and "im expecting" two weeks pregnant with another guys baby? She said after I dropped her off she was lost and called her ex and agreed to have a baby with him. she starts saying all sorts of weird things like "i never told you of the secret dream i had about having a baby i wanted" and "I'm having a baby and in paradise!'" She said the guy won't be around and its just her and the baby. I feel sick and thinking how is this possible if its been less than 3 weeks since I saw her an she had period. I called a doctor offce and they said she would no be able to detect enough of the HCG hormone in the body and couldn't know if she was pregnant that soon. so that either means she's lying, or she was pregnant before me and sleeping with other guy while with me and therefore could be mine!. she was adment about not sleeping with anyone else while we were together., I confronted her with this and her response is " its not yours! I ask how could you know? and she says "I can't stress right now, please stop... like you said you don't need this BS" wtf does that mean? Can anyone chime into what might have happened or is happening? I'm going nuts!
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She is definitely playing games with you and I don't think she is pregnant. It takes at LEAST a few weeks for it to show up on a test. How heavy was her period? There's this thing called "implantation bleeding" which happens around 12-16 days after the sex. This is where the egg buries itself in her uterus. She may bleed very lightly for 2-4 days during this time. The blood will be a lot darker. She will also cramp during this time. Can you remember anything about that? Also, women use the whole baby thing to get back at men all the time, I've seen it countless times, it's ridiculous. If in fact she is pregnant and it's not yours, then she's really fucked up and you need to leave. Don't get caught in her trap.0
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