First off I have been told that girls care about character not looks right? I am a 19 year old male 5"11 I work out allot I can bench 180 although I am skinny and working on that. I only way 140 this is dues to my fast metabolism that I am working on. I think I'm good looking, I have been told I am, by the opposite sex but I'm really depressed lately, something is wrong with my game. I am not looking for any one night stands, I'm just looking to meet someone special that I can get to know. Some one I can treat like she deserves with utmost respect, like a princes. Well anyway sorry for rambling the problem is: I have no problem approaching girls tacking to them, asking for there number, (and I usually get it unless they are just not interested or they have a boyfriend something like that) Its usually quite a pleasant social experience. The problem is I usually talk to them, for a bit and then they end up just not texting me back. Its hard to explain everything on here but what could I be saying that turns them off so badly? I do ask if they want to hang out... is this to pressure full? I mean how else am I going to get to know them? Any way like I said it goes from really good to really sower... Ladies your advice is appreciated, guys you can pitch in.
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Ohhh... sorry to hear about your situation. You sound like your doing all the right things. Just make sure your not coming on too strong. Another thing that might be killing your game is too much talking/texting. Us girls get a thrill when we meet a cute guy but once we get talking a lot that thrill lessens.
When you meet a girl say (as your departing) "Your so fun to be around! We should hang out sometime, how does the park on saturday sound?" that little line complements her (making her more likley to say yes) and shows her that you want to hang out. This invite keeps the thrill going and is practically impossible to turn down.
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